You managed to drag a woman at least once a day in bed dating? Penthouse turned to a leading specialist in this field, whose authority is indisputable: it is – a woman and knows what he says …
How to seduce a woman within 24 hours?
One of the eternal questions: why do some men need only look at the woman, and she is ready to go to bed? What is there to act – bewitches look? Athletic? Tridtsatisantimetrovaya stick between his legs? I doubt it. Associate sex only with the size of your penis – then obviously get on the wrong track. But then what?
Penthouse has asked me to share knowledge about what the girl from losing her head. The result is a kind of a small handbook or if you want a tutorial, and if you can just follow his instructions, your fiancee probably will be in your bed. With luck, you can handle, and for 24 hours.
IMPORTANT – THIS TRUST
When you happen to be a woman in an intimate setting, it is important that you talk to her – so says Milton Diamond, author of «Sex Watching» («Notes on sex”).
And love, and sex – a form of communication. Talking in bed – your most powerful weapon. “I’m just losing my mind from some of the men, outwardly the most ordinary – says 28-year-old Harriet. – For me, sexuality is – is primarily a sexy voice and the ability to communicate. ”
Of course, the girls like flattering, smart and subtle conversations. But keep in mind that women have the uncanny ability to pick up when they start to cheat. They remember your lies for long. Listen to the advice of 28-year-old Jerry is very popular among my girlfriends: “If you want to get a girl into bed, do not start bragging that you’re leading international company, especially if you’re just trading clerk. It just feels false, and then you will never be able to climb up to her under the covers. ”
Flattery, as already mentioned, – a good tool, but here, too, has its own rules. Yes, every woman is nice when it is perceived as a charming goddess of love. But tell her what she is caring, gentle, understanding, admit it – the only person with whom you can talk for real, and her heart will melt much faster. Proceed with caution. If your girl’s large breasts, do not hold your attention on them. Pretend they are not attracted to you, and it will be pleasantly surprised that the man talking to her is really for the sake of talk.
So what do women want to hear from you? Studies show that women’s most important conversations confidential, forcing them feel smart and sexy. For you, this is too abstract? Okay, a few proven ways of operating almost flawlessly.
The method of “sympathy” (the appearance of lulling sense of total security is guaranteed.) “I’ve never understood women. Maybe you try to help me? “Pause for the answer, and continued:” Tell me what you seen the perfect man. ”
Method “Why is it so difficult to find a woman who wanted to be really serious relationship? I do not see any sense to just go to bed – so people will never know for real. ”
The method of “sympathy for the opposite.” “Whether you look today, what happened?” It is important to take your companion for a frank conversation about themselves, in which she filled with great confidence to you. But beware: some women may have misunderstood, and to counter-attack on the principle of “better look at yourself.”
Having won the trust of one woman, consider that you have gone through most of the way. “My ideal man loves women – says 28-year-old Rosalind. – But when he’s with me, I always feel that all his thoughts – just for me. I feel that he really is … to me that I – his joy. With him I quietly. No need to hide anything. He understands my mind, heart and flesh. ”
In the seduction of women a central role is played by three things: charisma, sex appeal and confidence. Charisma is not directly linked to external data. “Charismatic people often are not handsome, – says psychologist Ray Bull. – But they know how to adjust the nature and social behavior in their appearance and always considered the fact that with one glance they do not ocharueshsya. ” 26-year-old Wendy fully agree with him: “Sexiest man whom I knew – one who never gives up: not intrusive and aggressive, and stubborn, and incredibly charming. It is very difficult to refuse a man who so obviously wants you, and so it achieves. ”
Achieve sexual attraction is simple. It all comes down to two things: the ability to listen to and ownership of sign language. No woman can resist a man who really listens to her: do not do anything, just showing an interest. People who feel that their speeches are perceived with great attention, immediately give the listener all kinds of virtues. All that is required of you – keep your mouth shut.
Then sign language: Respond to what she says and copy her gestures. “Synchronization of gestures – an effective way to gain the interlocutor, – explains Sandra Sedzhibir, author of” Sexual Power “(” The power of sex “). – The same gestures indicate the same relation to the subject, from which it automatically finds the proximity of your views. ”
Add to all this confidential tone, and no woman will not fail. “It is important to pose – adds Sandra Sedzhibir. – The way you stand or sit, can tell a lot about you. For example, a man with drooping shoulders gives the impression of a person helpless, hapless. But the pose is confidential conversation: body straight, his head tilted slightly forward. ”
Do not hesitate: SHOW!
To impress, use whatever you have. If you know that women like your butt, wear tight jeans. Have a distinctive look – often look into the eyes of interlocutor. Practice in front of a mirror!
Call attention to parts of the body that rely on women’s affection: put, say, a fashionable belt – her eyes are sure to linger on the beautiful buckle, and then inevitably arises the idea of what was inside, under the pants.
Polls show that 80 percent of women in a man pay attention primarily on the eyes hit her with his incredibly sexy look (pre-train, as already noted, the front of the mirror). Your eyes – at least initially – to expand the depth of her eyes! Studies from N. Reyholdom, author of «The Tell-Tale Eye» («The eloquent eyes”), showed that the majority of men with eyes as pretty women really expanding, which is not observed, for example, when meeting with another man. Learn how to broaden and narrow eyes, and your interlocutor will understand how shocked you (even if it’s not entirely true). It’s very simple. Look into the distance, and then again in her eyes – the pupils will automatically change their size and show your excitement.
Eye contact – a powerful force. Do not neglect it! Look, for example, says 26-year-old Diana: “I do not know if I ran away from his long eyelashes, or from the ever-squinting eyes, drove me to convulsions. The men who behave like supermen and immediately lay down on the sofa, I have always aroused antipathy. ”
Remember: come-on – a real treasure, do not hesitate to use it!
HERE AND NOW
It may seem strange, but chic dinner at an expensive restaurant itself is not so essential for seduction.
“Home meal is more effective – says 27-year-old Nick. – The girls are always the impression that you know how to handle pots, even if in fact you do not know how. ” (Nick is usually ready to buy lunch and shifts it to your dish so that it looked at home.) “For most women, a man in a chef – a curiosity, and they are quite intrigued by this – he continues. – Well, of course, dinner at home – it means to be closer to the bed. ”
Another great way to drag the woman to where you want – the so-called fuck out of sympathy. Says Andy, in the recent past, a great expert on this technique: “Tell her that you have abandoned lover, you really hard and you can not spend the weekend alone – certainly not out.
The room should have two beds. We went to bed: she in her bed – wondering when the attack begins, but you do not pay any attention to it, and quietly snuffle. As soon as she realizes that nothing is planned, it would be a shame – it really is so weak attractive force? – And she tries anything. ”
As you know, a retreat at a rate of knots few easy suddenly replaced the decisive attack, only helps women overcome past you divide centimeters.
MASSAGE WITH MEANING
It is in your party and you want to have a physical approach. Just do not immediately jump on her like a beast!
Leave her room to maneuver. The main thing – not to frighten. Women can not stand to feel just sexual objects. No need to trot out the hammer, and do not drool. The best way to lull your chosen one – is to treat it gently and carefully. If you decide to kiss, do not try to move to remove her tonsils without an anesthetic.
Says 30-year-old Sarah: “One guy, whom I greatly wanted, I just became disgusted when the middle of a sentence suddenly jumped on me and stuck his tongue in my mouth. I have it almost bit off! ”
Turning to caress, to exercise restraint! You did not earn extra points if you grab the chest for your girl, when she hands you a chocolate biscuit. Listen to the words of 22-year-old Nicky and concluded: “The worst type of men – those that are invited for a cup of coffee regard as an invitation to sleep. This man breathes scent of your perfume and lightly touches her lips to the skin. This man gently stroking your neck when you’re watching a movie. Once in the theater guy is only two o’clock was playing with my hair and caressed her neck. By the end of the session, I thought only of his bed. ”
And if you really want to go to take decisive action, follow the advice in 31-year old Patrick and try to massage. “Massage – one of the fastest ways of seduction – he explains. – Do not just paw the whole body, it is much better to start with light strokes arms and back, then she will trust you more. You do not have time to notice and how will prove to be in bed. ”
If your girl is too shy to accept a massage, ask her to tell fortunes in the arm. (Women baldeyut from men with mystical leanings: you will immediately impress the spiritual man, and therefore, sensible and capable not only of the fact that the print pack of condoms.) Psevdohiromantii advantage of this is that you get the opportunity to caress her hand (start with folds elbow – it will run immediately goosebumps). Then tell her something interesting: the type that, judging by the lines of a hand, she has finally met the man of her dreams. The ice melted quickly.
As for the massage, here are some contraindications. It should not, for example, kneading the skin, as the dough: erotic inspiration not increase, but the bruises are quite possible.
Looking for a rhythmic, gliding strokes most erogenous body parts: neck. Very light and caresses the back of the circular, tickling the movement of the thumb under the chin. What is more tender, more surely. Lay the track to the back – this is a very sensitive part of the body.
Head. Circular rubbing his hand on the nape of the neck vertebrae will pass through the excitation directly into the vagina.
Shoulders. Pinch the shoulder and a little massage to the top, then get down to the spine.
Spine. There is a point directly related to the centers of sexual response. Squeeze the thumb and forefinger with one or the other side of the vertebrae and run them down. Then massage the rest of the back. Do not press too hard, maximum – to the level of lung oykanya your client.
Feet. If she will allow a foot massage, consider that you have a goal. (Feet to most people – very sensitive and intimate zone.) Here is desired lubrication: Use some baby cream.
Rub his heels, and then his hands – do your feet.
Ankle. Here, at a height of several centimeters are the points at which, according to Chinese experts, is focused sexual energy that can turn your girlfriend into an insatiable tigress. Massage this point for about thirty seconds, and from just a spark will fall.
Hands. Glide your fingers on the palms of your lady, then squeeze her fingers and gently caress them. Take the palm of both hands, stroke: for many women it is very exciting.
During the massage, do not forget to repeat what she has wonderful, smooth, extremely soft skin. When your lady is enough to relax, put her legs and massage for the entire length of the thighs, avoiding, however, more commonly known erogenous zones. Now she was so excited that surprised, why do not you begin to master. Thus bringing it to the “white heat” can no longer anything to not care and give herself to finish the remaining work.
All these sudden stops, pressure, alternating with digressions, you put it before the need to decide to seize the initiative, because the only thing that does not make a woman – is uncertain. Play with her cat and mouse!
Of course, all of the above – this is just a script. Your concern is now to turn it into reality. If, however, your passion and do not rush around your neck, pulling off your clothes – it does not mean anything. Either you did something wrong, or your charm still was not enough.
Between us, the boys say, not everyone is able to move, shake for 24 hours of the girl clothes and laid in his bed. Usually these guys names like Gibson and Costner.
So, maybe you should change the profession?